I truly hadn't meant to take such a long hiatus from blogging. I guess I hadn't meant for much to happen that actually did the past (almost) month (holy moly, it's almost been a MONTH?!). I didn't expect to go to my doctor's appointment two days shy of 33 weeks and to not return home again until I became a Mom (wow, I'm a
Mom!). I didn't expect to spend only two nights in the hospital prior to delivering my sweet boys. I didn't expect for my platelet count to remain low (even after a platelet transfusion), resulting in the inability to have an epidural. I didn't expect for the magnesium sulfate to kick my butt so hard that I wasn't able to deliver vaginally, sans an epidural. I surely didn't expect to give birth to my babies via C-section under general anesthesia without my husband by my side. And I really,
really, didn't expect to be unable to see my babies for a whole 24 hours after they were brought into this world.
Wow, it's so emotional and I feel a lump in my throat from just typing all of that.
But... I also didn't expect to feel the love that I do for two, just-over-five-pound babies. Oh the love... The love is indescribable. It's more than I ever imagined possible. More than I ever
knew possible. My love for my sons is so strong that it hurts. But it hurts in such a
good way.
Austin and Camden spent the first days of their lives in the NICU. Camden, Baby B, came home after 17 days and Austin joined us after 22 days. A little after three weeks from their birth, we finally became a family under one roof and my life felt complete. Chaotic, but complete. My heart was (and is) finally full. I finally,
finally, have what I've always wanted... What I had begged and pleaded God for... a family... a baby... And I got TWO!
Life at home with two is both tougher and more wonderful than I'm able to express here in writing. We were blessed to have the help of my parents for quite some time. My mom was with me since the day before the babies arrived and only left this past week. Now that was tough... saying good-bye. Here comes that lump in my throat again... oh boy! Nick has four weeks off from work, though, and for that I'm so grateful! While we're a bit sleep deprived on most days, we also feel like we're doing an OK job. The babies are eating, sleeping, peeing and pooping all day every day and on top of that they get lots of mommy and daddy snuggles. They've both gained weight and have received great reports from their pediatrician visits to date. So far, so good I suppose?
I definitely doubt myself on a daily basis, wondering if I'm a good Mom. I ask my husband and my Mom regularly if they think I'm doing a good job. Perhaps much of that doubt is related to post pregnancy hormones? Whatever it is, the doubt is there but so is the love and the love absolutely outweighs the doubt.
As I sit here typing, I'm not sure where I want this post, or this blog, to go. My babies will be one month old on Saturday and I cannot believe it - a month! Four weeks! What?! How did that happen?! I never envisioned myself as a mommy blogger writing about my children and life as a mother. This blog may very well turn into that... someday. But for now, I'm much too busy doubting myself, loving my boys and trying to keep up with their laundry to do much else. So, bear with me and together we will see where Two Hearts and One Dream goes (I so admire all of you moms out there who find the time to blog and to do
anything else other than feeding babies and changing diapers!!).
Thank you all for your love, support, encouragement and prayers. I wouldn't be here, where I am today, without all of you! XOXO
